Are you lucky in love? Or just a hemophiliac.
Hemophilia is defined as “tendency to fall in love quickly and easily”.
The term, created by the psychologist Dr. Daniel Jones describes those who “want” to be in love, driven by the thrill of bonding and the whirlwind of emotions that come with it.
Hemophiliacs feel they need someone, often out of loneliness or anxiety – and they’ll rush right into a relationship just to satisfy that desire.
These lovebirds “seek the rush of romantic emotions, instant romantic connections, and the rapid development of romantic love.”
Like other personality traits, hemophilia is ranked on a scale – referred to as the Emotional Promiscuity Scale.
Most people fall in the middle, but some romantics fall hard “immediately or with little information about someone.”
While hemophilia is not a medical issue, it can lead to risky behavior and pose a threat to people’s health as they are fed a love potion with cognitive, emotional and biological factors that lead to impulsive decisions focused on immediate gratification. than in forward planning. – although they can already choose China’s models.
These repeat romantics have been found to be more susceptible to disturbing acts, including infidelity, unsafe sex, and perjury.
A study recently published in Frontiers in Psychology found that those with high hemophilia are more likely to be unfaithful than those with different romantic inclinations.
“Their excitement, rush of attraction and quick hookups doesn’t go away once they get into a relationship. Because they have a lower threshold for arousal and attachment, that makes them a risk of infidelity,” Dr. Jones, who was not involved in the aforementioned study, told The Times.
Studies have also shown that those who rank high on the hemophilia scale tend to accumulate more partners and engage in unsafe sex – who wants to let a little latex get in the way of a passionate affair?
People with character traits are also more willing to bend the truth and “cover up” for their partner even if they’ve only known him for a short time.
Dr. Jones advises risky romantics to look for red flags and consider potential partners who seem “boring.”
“Those who sell themselves well on initial dates and are calm and charming sometimes have an agenda and will use that rush of excitement for later exploitation. Red flags for more harmful behavior should be much more compromising than red flags for boredom.”
He also suggests seeking advice and opinions from trusted family and friends — or even a professional.
“Remember that emotions and feelings can be easily manipulated, but trust and companionship should not be rushed, and a good foundation is critical for a realistic chance of having a working relationship,” he said.
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